Ladies, acknowledge all that he does for you. It could be as trivial as texting you every morning or making you feel special but never take your man for granted. Being the man who gets to take care of you can be a little hard sometimes, we have to be the best friend, the boyfriend, understanding, patient, etc, etc. Thank him for all he does and let him know you appreciate him and his time, his efforts and his love. A small thank you with a kiss and hug cost nothing, but they sure mean everything.
Gentleman, accept your girl for who she is. Every human being has his strong points and shortcomings. Do not try to change her into the person you want her to be. People grow, and change over time. If she has changed, so have you. You choose her as your girl, so it goes without saying that you must accept her. Learn to accept and learn to love the flaws. Love her unconditionally. When you do that, appreciating her for all that she is and all that she does will come naturally to you.
And last but not least, both guys and girls please do not have expectations from your partner. This puts unnecessary strain on the relationship, and when the partner doesn’t meet these expectations, the love and spontaneity in a relationship can gradually begin to diminish. Instead focus on the positive traits you both have, and you will prove that the adage ”behind every successful man, there is a woman” and “behind every successful women, there is a man” holds true. Sprinkle your relationship life with appreciation, and both of you will soon head toward a more fulfilling relationship. <3
It’s always better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never sees your worth.
I know that every relationship has its set of problems, some more serious than others but ultimately they all have problems. But it’s sad when couples can’t come to an agreement that would benefit the both. When arguments and fights don’t get solved and the problem gets thrown to the side I call it “The battle of the hearts”. The girl won’t say anything until the guy does, and guy won’t say anything until she does and they’ll both play the blame game, ripping each others hearts out. I dislike how we are all to full of pride that sometimes we’d rather not apologize for what we did, just so we can stay true to ourselves, when sometimes an apology is all that is needed. I honestly think that’s where the problems lies. We need to be able to take responsibility, both of you are in the relationship and both are you are accountable for making things right, or at least trying.
Communication is the key. I know that with being with another person, one has his or her own set of values, expectations, preferences and there are bound to be some clashes, but without communication, nothing gets resolved. Communication is the base of any relationship. A relationship has to be built around this, without it there can be no hope of a serious relationship ever happening. Without communicatiomn, whatever else happens has absolutely no meaning. Communication is needed to breathe, it’s needed to take positive steps to spending time with each other but also understanding that you need to be on the same page. You need to catch your wrong doings before things get uncontrollable. Be mature about it and explain to your partner that you want to make things right. Your relationship has to mean more to you than you ego. It’s okay to lose your pride over something you love, but never lose something you love over your pride . <3
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