Dean Koontz // submitted via rinnyy.
— Psalm 4:4 (via ronworld)
This is me! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me… or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don’t fit your idea of who I should be and don’t try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
The pain in a relationship comes from trying to force someone to do something they don’t want to do. You are not here to change others. Accept that you can allow them to be as they are, to believe as they do. The only person you can effectively change is yourself. In changing the way you relate to others you in effect change the way they relate to you because you have upset the balance in the way you interacted with them previously. By accepting others as they are, you allow them to grow and to learn for themselves. If you can’t tolerate their behavior, consider whether or not you really want to continue in the relationship, assuming they may never change. We all deserve to be loved the way we want to be loved. The choice is yours.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/3210235
— Happened to me. (via c-oquetry)
The right relationship.
Ladies, acknowledge all that he does for you. It could be as trivial as texting you every morning or making you feel special but never take your man for granted. Being the man who gets to take care of you can be a little hard sometimes, we have to be the best friend, the boyfriend, understanding, patient, etc, etc. Thank him for all he does and let him know you appreciate him and his time, his efforts and his love. A small thank you with a kiss and hug cost nothing, but they sure mean everything.
Gentleman, accept your girl for who she is. Every human being has his strong points and shortcomings. Do not try to change her into the person you want her to be. People grow, and change over time. If she has changed, so have you. You choose her as your girl, so it goes without saying that you must accept her. Learn to accept and learn to love the flaws. Love her unconditionally. When you do that, appreciating her for all that she is and all that she does will come naturally to you.
And last but not least, both guys and girls please do not have expectations from your partner. This puts unnecessary strain on the relationship, and when the partner doesn’t meet these expectations, the love and spontaneity in a relationship can gradually begin to diminish. Instead focus on the positive traits you both have, and you will prove that the adage ”behind every successful man, there is a woman” and “behind every successful women, there is a man” holds true. Sprinkle your relationship life with appreciation, and both of you will soon head toward a more fulfilling relationship. <3
It’s always better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never sees your worth.
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